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- Wikipedia:Miscellany for deletion/Discriminatory userboxes (also included a mis-named userbox in template space, which should not be restored - userboxes belong in user space)
There are any number of process problems here. For one, these userboxes were nominated along with two grossly inflammatory ones that were in no way appropriate. They should have been considered separately from the beginning. Secondly, at the point that the discussion was closed, it had run for just over a day and purely from a head-counting standpoint, keeps were outnumbering deletes. The closer substituted his own opinion for the opinions of those commenting - there is no policy reason that demands the deletion of these userboxes. It is a fact of life that for the majority of the world, marriage is between one man and one woman. Whether you agree with that or not, it is the law of the land. In the US, it's a hot button political issue, but every President, including President Obama, has opposed same sex marriage. Stating such could not reasonably be called so inflammatory as to demand speedy deletion. On the other hand, User:Tal642/my userboxes/SanerWorldNoReligion, that neither this closer nor anyone advocating the deletion seems to have a problem with, advocates either the extermination or forcible conversion of people of faith. I wouldn't be at all opposed to abolishing all user boxes that advocate a political position beyond simply stating a party or religious identity (eg, I am a Libertarian, I am a Catholic, I am Islamic), but until such time as that happens, selective enforcement of unapproved points of view is not a positive for the project and only contributes to hurt feelings. Personally, I am offended by a great deal of userpage content, but I recognize that I have no right on Wikipedia not to be offended. I also disagree with those who would call for a national so-called "sanctity of marriage amendment" or other such things. But this isn't about what I agree with - it's about whether or not it is appropriate to censor unpopular points of view in user space or for administrators to substitute their own preferences in place of community decision. Thank you. --B (talk) 22:27, 21 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- As some might know, I was amongst those that helped bring along "the new deal" - nowadays called WP:UBM in midst of the drama that was called "the userbox wars". I do not agree with the views of the people using the "one man and one woman" userbox. But I respect, and protect, their right to state their views, be it per userbox or text on their userpage (which a userbox, in essence is). Would one ask a user to delete the text "I believe marriage to be between one man and one woman" from his userpage? Would you go to MfD to enforce your request? But I digress... My three main issues with the "fast deletion" were that it looks like the closer did rather count the !votes instead of the arguments, and that he did not allow the MfD run its course. The third issue is that the neutrally worded userbox was listed with two (I persume) truly obnoxious ones, and that the result was tainted by the obnoxious userboxes. Therefore I suggest Undelete and Relist at MfD CharonX/talk 22:43, 21 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Comment Requester may wish to reconsider that DRV statement. The law of which land? The tenet of which faith? DurovaCharge! 22:56, 21 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- According to Same-sex marriage, same-sex marriage, as I said in my statement, is not the law of the land in both the vast majority of the world as a whole and, specifically, in the vast majority of the English speaking world. If I am misinterpreting this map, please feel free to correct me. As for "tenet of which faith", I'm not sure what you are talking about. --B (talk) 23:11, 21 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Without qualifications, that nomination suggests an opinion that the practice is legal nowhere and endorsed by no religion. That's not quite true, is it? People who belong in such places and/or to such faiths might prefer to be acknowledged. No opinion on the DRV in question, just saying. DurovaCharge! 23:18, 21 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Huh? I didn't say anything about religious opinions on same-sex marriage. I don't think it's necessary in a DRV to acknowledge the litany of people who do or do not support same-sex marriage. The religion userbox is unrelated to this one - the only contrast is that there is support for the "approved POV" of anti-religion while there is opposition to the "unapproved POV" of opposition to same-sex marriage. This is, as with many other things, an institutional bias in Wikipedia - it tends to be more liberal than society as a whole. --B (talk) 23:30, 21 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist: To justify early closure, the content would have to be so grossly offensive that the evil of leaving it exposed to public viewing for four further days outweighed the evil of not subjecting it to a full discussion. Given that the point of view these two userboxes espouse, while not one I agree with, is a mainstream opinion in many societies, that cannot be said to be the case here. David(Talk) 23:19, 21 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist: It seemed to me that when deciding to delete, Xavexgoem ignored what had already been said and instead introduced new arguments as justification for deletion. These arguments would have contributed greatly to the discussion (it made me think again about what I'd written, for one), but did not represent consensus of the discussion as it stood. I therefore would say the topic should be relisted and the discussion resumed, taking Xavexgoem's points on board. Opera hat (talk) 00:22, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist - Double standards are unacceptable, even if you disagree with the viewpoint. VX!~~~ 00:26, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Overturn to keep No strong objection to a relist. Yes it was closed early. But no, there isn't any conceivable reason these should be deleted if userboxes of the opposite view are kept. And yes, like apparently everyone else here, I'm strongly in favor of gay marriage. But we aren't censored, and unless we get rid of all political userboxes, this one needs to stay. The statement clearly has the backing of the majority of the US and AFAIK the majority of the world. It that offends you, come join me in the People's Republic where such views are quite rare indeed. (Now if Michigan would just let us pass our own gay marriage law!) Hobit (talk) 00:26, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Question did the nominator attempt to discuss this with the person who performed the deletion? Maybe I'm a stickler for process, but isn't this DRV premature?-Andrew c [talk] 01:31, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Endorse deletion further discussion would likely have yielded no new ideas; the arguments are pretty straight-forward and like the underlying real-world conflict no one is likely to have their mind changed in 5 days rather than a few. These are clearly divisive - and yes, WP does have contrary views, but similarly I'm a Republican/Democrat/Labourite/Torry are all fine, I'm a Nazi isn't. I'm for racial equality, fine; I'm a Foo supremecist, not. I'm anti-nuclear, ok; I'm in favor of nuking the world, not OK. I'd prefer that they all go as they add little to collaborative efforts, but alas that position is the minority view. However, offensive things ought to go: Yes, it's not mirror image, but that's just tough luck - if you want to push your divisive POV's there's always WP:MYSPACE.... Carlossuarez46 (talk) 02:22, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Cough. I'm certain a few people would mind you comparing a box that advocates Nazism to a box that advocates "no same-sex marriage". I wouldn't mind a userbox that says "nuke everything" - at least I'd know what kind of user the user is. But this is not MfD, part 2. This is looking at the technical aspects of the closure - and those are kinda problematic. MfD discussions run for 5 days to allow everyone to participate and weigh in. If you can recognize the that a complex discussion about a difficult topic is "done" and determine the outcome of this discussion without fail, after it ran only a day and a half, you are a better person than it. CharonX/talk 06:05, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Ah the strawman you erect. The only keep arguments have been it's unfair and not parallel - in the next few days which we're going through now, nothing new has come up other than "if we had a few more days..." You're having them, sir, but nothing is coming up. Carlossuarez46 (talk) 20:24, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Comment The impression I was getting was that there was a subtext of those who felt oppressed by that userbox, and those who did not but failed to realize that the former indeed feel that way when they come across these userboxes. Xavexgoem (talk) 04:38, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Why didn't you make that point in the discussion, then, instead of unilaterally charging ahead to delete? Opera hat (talk) 18:43, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist. Deletion discussions shoud not be closed early when they are being actively discussed and the discussion is as close as seen here, unless there is some danger to Wikipedia in continuing them (not the case for this). Deletion discussions should not be closed with a rationale that properly belongs as a part of the debate, to be responded to by others, particularly when an administrator uses their privelege of effecting deletions to overrrule debate without participating in it. Deletion discussions should never be closed with a suggestion that one position in that debate arises from ignorance or deficieny ("The argument by other editors that it is neutral has not taken into account this impression [that some people really don't like these]"; I, for one, did take it into account in speaking as I did, and was not asked by the closer whether I had done so), period. In response to Carlossuarez above: Yes, expressing anti-nuclear sentiments is fine, and yes, saying "nuke everything" is not, but saying that you don't agree with anti-nuclear sentiments is fine, too, and not at all equivalent to desiring a nuclear exchange - a failure to make such distinctions is at the heart of what's wrong with the closure. — Gavia immer (talk) 04:55, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist I was under the impression that userboxes were allowed some latitude in their expression of POV. Certainly this speedy deletion did not reach consensus: 11 votes to Delete, 12 votes to Keep does not merit speedy deletion; the deletion request was carried out much too rashly. This same (or a very similar) userbox was previously up for deletion two years ago and was kept. If these userboxes representing a point of view supporting heterosexual marriage are not appropriate for WP, then perhaps others should also be removed, for example, Template:User Same Sex Married, and certainly this one which attempts to shame others of different points of view User:Jw21/deUBdomain/notnarrow alt. -- btphelps (talk) (contribs) 06:54, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist due to early closure which was unjustified. Stifle (talk) 09:36, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- relist Early closing controversial matters are not good. I will now repeat my usual refrain about userbox fights: Why bother? They don't matter either way. Go edit the encyclopedia. JoshuaZ (talk) 14:05, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Comment - "Editors with COIs are strongly encouraged to declare their interests, both on their user pages and on the talk page of any article they edit, particularly if those edits may be contested. Most Wikipedians will appreciate your honesty."[1]
- When editing possibly contentious articles such as California Proposition 8 (2008), I was under the impression that my POV should be declared openly (and encourage others to remind me when my edits are POV-driven). While I try to maintain an NPOV standpoint, I understand that my POV will eventually leak out in some action because I'm human. Thoughts? MrBell (talk) 16:32, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- My personal test is, is the userbox informative or polemical? Compare and contrast: "This user opposes same-sex marriage" vs. "This user believes that marriage consists of a man and a woman". The former is informative and neutral, the latter is distinctly soapboxy. So, why not simply state the former, and then we can all get on wth whatever it was we came here for? Guy (Help!) 20:51, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Ye-es... but if someone believed that marriage was only between a man and a woman, they mightn't want to use the term "same-sex marriage" at all - from their point of view, it would be an oxymoron. Or they could hold the belief that a marriage in church should be between a man and a woman, without opposing state recognition of civil marriages between members of the same sex. Or whatever. The two statements aren't saying the same thing. Opera hat (talk) 23:34, 22 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Doesn't strike me as that different in tone. Furthermore, "same-sex marriage" is a term that is favored one side of this issue. Polemic would be "This user believes God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve." JoshuaZ (talk) 02:13, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Maybe it's all just semantics, but "This user believes marriage should consist of..." seems a little less pointy than a version without "should", if we are talking about rewordings...-Andrew c [talk] 15:29, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
← This is essentially the reason I closed it; there is a middle ground here, like the one Guy suggests and the one I did in my closing statement. Consensus is leaning towards relist; if anyone believes that should be within my remit and prerogative, please say so and I will relist per this discussion. Xavexgoem (talk) 00:54, 24 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist unreasonably early close of something which should have been left for the full time. Trying to close off discussions on topics like these with strong differences in view tends to not be very productive. There is no need to reargue the actual issue here, at least not now. DGG (talk) 04:34, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Keep deleted and add in every single userbox that starts "This user believes that...". Pointless, often divisive, and you know what? I really couldn't give a **** about your beliefs as long as they don't colour your editing. Black Kite 09:11, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- A voice of clarity above the din! Carlossuarez46 (talk) 20:25, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Yeah. sadly, since it was closed far too early, it does really have to be relisted, and no doubt it'll be kept, despite being the complete antithesis of something that assists a collegial editing environment. Mind you, it could almost be helpful, because it's almost as if editors displaying it on their userpages are saying "Hey look, I really feel the need to display my bigotries, so it's probably worth checking my contribs as well". Black Kite 15:15, 25 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Overturn and relist for full discussion per DGG and Vxx. I do not understand these attempts to interfere with userpage content. This was not soapboxy. Just stating a view. For comparison, I express admiration in a userbox for a slain civil rights leader. Should it be removed because it might offend those who disagree with him or my views on civil rights? I think not. Is the objection to the userbox in question more weighty than would be an objection to the MLK userbox because the MLK one is more in conformance with PC? No. If anyone has a problem with an opinion in a user box, they need to not look at it. Or spend more time writing/citing/improving articles. There are real problems on Wikipedia, and this userbox is not one of them. Dlohcierekim 15:42, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Overturn and relist Cannot see the reasoning or grounds for closing the discussion early, let a discussion take the full period to allow full community participation. Davewild (talk) 20:35, 23 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist, while I disagree strongly with the sentiment espoused by the userboxes in question, the procedure clearly was not followed correctly. Open it up to a full discussion, and hopefully we can dispose of these repulsive templates the proper way. Lankiveil (speak to me) 02:17, 24 January 2009 (UTC).[reply]
- Relist – My userbox was neutrally written. See the opening statement by User:B above: these userboxes were nominated along with two grossly inflammatory ones that were in no way appropriate. They should have been considered separately from the beginning. I agree with this sentiment. I say Relist, but keep the inflammatory ones separate from my box. I’m willing to bet that the community consensus in a properly done MfD will also say Keep. JungleCat Shiny!/Oohhh! 19:06, 24 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Relist Jesus Christ, another Threshold-style close. Closing administrators are not allowed to reject the Community's reality and substitute their own; they're supposed to interpret the consensus and arguments for/against and determine whether the attempt passes or fails on those merits. Trout the closing admin as well. -Jéské Couriano (v^_^v) 23:57, 24 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Endorse deletion - the stated purpose of userboxes is to allow for collaboration between users to create, maintain or improve Wikipedia articles. Since articles must comply with WP:NPOV, there is absolutely no collaborative value in userboxes that express one's opinion on same-sex marriage, either for or against. Wikipedia is not a soapbox, so if a user feels compelled to announce his opposition or support of same-sex marriage, they are free to find one of any number of websites upon which to do it or start their own website or blog. Otto4711 (talk) 06:45, 26 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
- Speedy Relist - There was no consensus to close 16x9 (talk) 13:41, 26 January 2009 (UTC)[reply]
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