Martha Washington
Portrait after Gilbert Stuart, early-mid-19th century
First Lady of the United States
In role April 30, 1789 – March 4, 1797
President	George Washington
Preceded by	Position established
Succeeded by	Abigail Adams
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Born	Martha Dandridge (1731-06-02)June 2, 1731 Chestnut Grove, Virginia, British America
Died	May 22, 1802(1802-05-22) (aged 70) Mount Vernon, Virginia, U.S.
Resting place	Mount Vernon, Virginia, U.S. 38°42′28.4″N 77°05′09.9″W / 38.707889°N 77.086083°W / 38.707889; -77.086083
Spouses	Daniel Parke Custis ​ ​ (m. 1750; died 1757)​ George Washington ​ ​ (m. 1759; died 1799)​
Children	Daniel Frances John Martha
Parent(s)	John Dandridge Frances Dandridge
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Martha Dandridge Custis Washington (June 2, 1731 O.S. – May 22, 1802) was the wife of George Washington, who was the first president of the United States. Although the title was not coined until after her death, she served as the inaugural first lady of the United States, defining the role of the president's wife and setting many precedents that future first ladies observed. During her tenure, she was referred to as "Lady Washington". Washington is consistently ranked in the upper half of first ladies by historians.

Martha Dandridge married Daniel Parke Custis on May 15, 1750, and the couple had four children, only one of whom survived to adulthood.^[1] She was widowed in 1757 at the age of 26, inheriting a large estate. She was remarried to George Washington in 1759, moving to his plantation, Mount Vernon. Her youngest daughter died of epilepsy in 1773, and the Washingtons were unable to conceive any children of their own. Washington became a symbol of the American Revolution after her husband was appointed commander-in-chief of the Continental Army. During the war, she played a maternal role, visiting encampments when fighting stalled each winter. Her only surviving child, John Parke Custis, died from a camp illness during the war. After the war ended in 1783, she sought retirement at Mount Vernon, but returned to public life when her husband became president of the United States in 1789.

Washington took on the social role of the president's wife reluctantly, becoming a national celebrity in the process. She found this life unpleasant, feeling that she was restricted and wishing for retirement. In addition to hosting weekly social events, Washington understood that how she composed herself would reflect on the nation, both domestically and abroad. As such, she struck a careful balance between the dignity associated with a head of state's wife and the humility associated with republican government. The Washingtons returned to Mount Vernon in 1797, and she spent her retirement years greeting admirers and advising her successors. She was widowed for a second time in 1799, and she died two-and-a-half years later in 1802.

Martha Dandridge was born on June 2, 1731, on her parents' tobacco plantation,^[2]: 9 Chestnut Grove Plantation in New Kent County the Colony of Virginia. She was the oldest daughter of Frances Jones, the granddaughter of an Anglican rector,^[3]: 2 and John Dandridge, a Virginia planter^[3]: 2 and county clerk^[2]: 9 who emigrated from England. She had three brothers and four sisters: John (1733–1749), William (1734–1776), Bartholomew (1737–1785), Anna Maria "Fanny" Bassett (1739–1777), Frances Dandridge (1744–1757), Elizabeth Aylett Henley (1749–1800), and Mary Dandridge (1756–1763).^[4] As the oldest of eight, including one sister that was 25 years her junior, Dandridge played a maternal and domestic role beginning early in life.^[2]: 10 Dandridge may have also had an illegitimate half-sister born into slavery, Ann Dandridge Costin,^[5] and an illegitimate white half-brother, Ralph Dandridge.^{[6]: 26–27}

Dandridge's father was well connected with the Virginia aristocracy despite his relative lack of wealth, and she was taught to behave as a woman of the upper class.^[7] She received a relatively high quality education for the daughter of a planter, though it was still inferior to that of her brothers.^[8] She took to equestrianism, at one point riding her horse up and down the stairs of her uncle's home and escaping chastisement because her father was so impressed by her skill.^[9]: 8

In 1749, Dandridge met Daniel Parke Custis, the son of a wealthy planter in Virginia.^[7] They wished to marry, but the father of Dandridge's prospective groom, John Custis, was highly selective of what woman would marry into the family's fortune. She eventually won his approval, and Dandridge married Custis, who was two decades her senior, on May 15, 1750.^[3]: 2 After they were married, Custis moved with her husband to his residence at White House Plantation on the Pamunkey River. Here they had four children: Daniel, born 1751; Frances, born 1753; John, born 1754; and Martha, born 1756. Daniel died in 1754 and Frances died in 1757.^[10]: 4 Daniel Parke Custis was one of the wealthiest men in the Virginia colony as well as one of the largest slaveowners, owning nearly 300 slaves.^[11]

Custis became a widow at the age of 26 when her husband died (possibly from a severe infection of the throat).^[12] Upon his death, she inherited the large estate that he had previously inherited from his father.^[7] After his death in 1757, she received one third of his estate outright, and the remaining two thirds were granted to their two young children. The total inheritance amounted to approximately $33,000 (equivalent to $1,104,439 in 2023), 17,000 acres of land, and hundreds of slaves.^[3]: 2 The legal and financial matters of the inheritance presented a considerable burden on Custis while she was raising her two surviving children and grieving the losses of her husband, two children, and her father.^[10]: 4 She was also left with the responsibility of managing the farmland and overseeing the well-being of the slaves.^[3]: 2 According to her biographer, "she capably ran the five plantations left to her when her first husband died, bargaining with London merchants for the best tobacco prices".^[13]

By one account Custis met George Washington during the Williamsburg social season, and they courted over the following months during his leaves from the military.^[10]: 4 By another, they were introduced by Colonel Chamberlayne, a mutual acquaintance, when they both stayed the night at his home in May 1758.^[9]: 8–9 They married on January 6, 1759, at the White House plantation.^[10]: 5

The couple honeymooned at the Custis family's White House plantation,^[6]: 124 followed by a stay in Williamsburg where her husband was a representative in the House of Burgesses before setting up house at his Mount Vernon estate.^[3]: 3 At the time of their wedding, she was one of the wealthiest widows in the Thirteen Colonies.^[14]: 27 Their marriage remained happy over the following 40 years, in part because of their similar worldviews.^[10]: 4 It was a marriage based in mutual respect and shared habits, with both maintaining similar schedules in day-to-day life and both prioritizing family and image over excitement and vice.^[2]: 11

From 1759 to 1775, the Washingtons lived at Mount Vernon where they tended to their plantation.^[7] Washington ran the household and regularly entertained visitors. She knitted and oversaw the making of clothes, and she became talented in curing meat in their smokehouse.^[3]: 3 Washington entertained almost daily, having visitors for dinner or for longer stays as the family became more prominent in the political and social life of Virginia.^[10]: 5 Washington's husband used her wealth to expand their home at Mount Vernon and turn it into a profitable estate.^[3]: 3

The Washingtons had no children together, but they raised Martha's two surviving children. She was highly protective of them, especially after her two previous children had died and Patsy was found to have epilepsy.^[3]: 3 In 1773, Patsy died when she was 17 during an epileptic seizure.^[15][16] Washington's last surviving child, John, left King's College that fall and married Eleanor Calvert in February 1774.^[16] The Washingtons hoped for more children throughout their marriage, but they were unable to conceive.^[3]: 3–4

Life for the Washingtons was interrupted as the American Revolution escalated in the 1770s.^[3]: 4 Though rumors were spread that she was a Loyalist, Washington consistently shared her husband's political beliefs.^[9]: 3–4 She strongly supported his role in the Patriot movement and his work to advance his beliefs in the cause. She stayed at Mount Vernon when he was appointed commander-in-chief of the Continental Army in 1775, overseeing the construction of new wings to their home. She then moved to the home of her brother-in-law so as not to be so conspicuous a target during the American Revolutionary War.^[3]: 4

The revolution was the first time in their marriage that they were apart for an extended period. In the fall of 1775, Washington traveled to Massachusetts to meet with her husband.^[10]: 6 On the journey north, she experienced her newfound celebrity status for the first time as the wife of a famed general.^[10]: 6 She joined him in Cambridge, from where he and the other Continental Army officers were operating. While staying in Cambridge, she served as a hostess for guests of the officers.^[3]: 4 She would also sew clothes for the soldiers while at camp, encouraging other officers' wives to do the same, leading to the creation of a sewing circle that contributed to the war effort.^[9]: 5 Though she hid it from those around her, Washington was frightened by the gunfire that could be heard from the nearby Siege of Boston.^[3]: 4 She accompanied her husband when operations were relocated to New York, but she was sent to Philadelphia as British forces came closer.^[3]: 5 Each spring, when conflict resumed, she returned to Mount Vernon.^[10]: 7

The American Revolution became increasingly stressful for Martha after the signing of the Declaration of Independence, as George faced increased risks on the battlefield.^[3]: 5 Each winter, Washington would join her husband at his encampment while fighting was stalled. The quality of her housing varied during these visits, both in comfort and in safety.^[3]: 5 General Lafayette observed that she loved "her husband madly".^[17] Washington was kept informed of the war's developments by her husband, sometimes performing clerical work for him, and she was even permitted to know military secrets.^[2]: 14 She became a symbol of the war effort, alongside George Washington, as a grandmotherly figure that cared for the soldiers.^[10]: 7

The Continental Army settled in Valley Forge, the third of the eight winter encampments of the Revolution, on December 19, 1777. Washington traveled 10 days and hundreds of miles to join her husband in Pennsylvania.^[18] On April 6, Elizabeth Drinker and three friends arrived at Valley Forge to plead with the General to release their husbands from jail; the men, all Quakers, had refused to swear a loyalty oath to the American revolutionaries. Because the commander was not available at first, the women visited with Martha.^[19] Drinker described her later in her diary as "a sociable pretty kind of Woman".^[20]

Washington's son John was serving as a civilian aide to his father during the siege of Yorktown in 1781 when he died of "camp fever", a diagnosis for epidemic typhus.^[16] After his death, she and George took in the youngest two of John's four children, Eleanor (Nelly) Parke Custis and George Washington Parke (Washy) Custis.^[10]: 7 The Washingtons also provided personal and financial support to the children of many of their relatives and friends.^[21]

The Washingtons returned to Mount Vernon in 1783.^[10]: 7 They stayed at Mount Vernon for much of the Confederation period, living in retirement with their nephew, nieces, and grandchildren.^[3]: 6 Washington, now in poorer health, believed that her husband was finished with public service.^[3]: 6 She spent her time raising their grandchildren, constantly worried for their health after having all four of her children and many other relatives die of illness. She also resumed hosting company at Mount Vernon, recruiting several of her nieces and other young women to assist her, as the house was overwhelmed with visitors.^{[10]: 7–8} Their life at Mount Vernon was interrupted again when he was asked to participate at the Constitutional Convention in 1787 and again when he was chosen as the first president of the United States in 1789.^[3]: 7

After the war, Washington was not fully supportive of her husband's agreeing to be president of the newly formed United States.^[22] She did not immediately join him at the capital in New York City, only arriving in May 1789.^[7] The journey was followed by the press, which was unprecedented in the attention that it paid to a woman's actions, and the entourage was met with admirers and fanfare in each town that it passed through. It was during this journey that she gave her only public speech as first lady, thanking those that came to see her.^[2]: 15 She arrived on the presidential barge, escorted by her husband, immediately establishing the president's wife as a public figure.^[23]: 3 After arriving at the capital, Washington became the inaugural first lady of the United States, though the term would not be used until later. Instead, she was referred to as "Lady Washington".^[24]: 13

As the inaugural first lady, many of Washington's practices in the White House became traditions for future first ladies, including the opening of the White House to the public on New Year's Day, a practice that would continue until the Hoover administration.^[7] She hosted many affairs of state at New York City and Philadelphia during their years as temporary capitals.^[9]: 6 Taking her responsibility as the lady of the house seriously, Washington returned the official calls of every lady that left her card at the heavily-trafficked presidential home to ensure that everyone could reach the president, always doing so within three days.^{[23]: 6–7}

Washington was also tasked by her husband with the responsibility of hosting drawing room events on Fridays in which ladies were permitted to attend.^[23]: 5 She would remain seated during such events while the president greeted their guests.^[10]: 9 The guests were at first uncertain as to whether they should follow the royal custom of waiting for the hostess to leave before they do, and she resolved the issue by announcing her husband always retired at nine.^[23]: 6 She was careful during these events to avoid political talk, encouraging a change of subject when it came up.^[9]: 6 The social circles that developed among those in American politics at this time became known as the Republican Court.^[25]

The first presidential residence was a house on Cherry Street, followed by a house on Broadway. The capital was moved to Philadelphia in 1790, and the presidential residence again moved,^[23]: 7 this time to a house on High Street (now Market Street).^[10]: 10 Washington much preferred the Philadelphia residence, as it had a greater social life and was closer to Mount Vernon.^[3]: 8 Early in her husband's presidency, she had little opportunity to go out, as any action she took would have political implications.^{[10]: 9–10} After their move to Philadelphia, the Washingtons loosened their self-imposed limits on personal activity.^[10]: 11 While serving as first lady, Washington became close to Polly Lear, the wife of her husband's secretary Tobias Lear.^[3]: 8 She also associated with Lucy Flucker Knox, wife of war secretary Henry Knox, and Abigail Adams, the second lady.^[10]: 10 The time she spent with her grandchildren was another high point for Washington, who would sometimes take them to shows and museums.^[24]: 60 She also made a point of frequently attending church, owing to her firm Episcopalian beliefs.^[2]: 12

Washington was forced to take control of the presidential residence at one point shortly after her husband's presidency began, forbidding guests from entering, as he was undergoing the removal of a tumor.^{[24]: 67–68} In July 1790, artist John Trumbull gave Washington a full-length portrait painting of her husband as a gift. It was displayed in their home at Mount Vernon in the New Room.^[26] When Washington learned that her husband might take on a second term as president, she uncharacteristically protested against the decision. Despite her opposition, he was reelected in 1793, and she reluctantly accepted four more years as the wife of the president.^[3]: 8 The young Georges Washington de La Fayette joined the Washington family in 1795 while his father, Marquis de Lafayette, was held as a political prisoner in France. He would live with the Washingtons until fall of 1797.^[10]: 12 In 1796, Washington's slave and personal maid Oney Judge escaped and fled to New Hampshire. Despite Washington's insistence to her husband that Judge should be returned and again should be Washington's slave, the president did not attempt to pursue Judge.^[8] Washington's tenure as first lady ended in 1797.^[3]: 8

As the wife of both the head of government and the head of state, Washington was immediately faced with the pressure of representing the United States. She had to present the United States as a dignified nation to establish credibility among the countries of Europe, but she also had to respect the spirit of democracy by refusing to present herself as a queen.^[3]: 7 She was also aware that the precedent she set would be inherited by future presidential wives.^[24]: 19 Washington balanced these responsibilities by playing the role of a social hostess at presidential events, a role that would become the primary function of the first lady. In turn, this made the position of first lady an important point of contact between the president and the people.^{[14]: 27–29}

Washington presented an image of herself as an amiable wife, but privately she complained about the restrictions placed on her life.^[27] She found the pageantry of the presidency to be boring and artificial.^[2]: 12 Washington was not exempt from the political attacks often levied at her husband's administration by opposition-owned newspapers. While her social role was celebrated by her husband's supporters, the anti-Federalists criticized her as emulating royalty and encouraging aristocracy.^{[14]: 29–30} At the same time, other critics accused her social activities of being too informal.^[24]: 19 To her displeasure, she found that she was constantly the subject of public attention, and she was forced to pay increased attention to her hair and clothes each day.^{[10]: 9–10} Despite this, she still opted to dress simply in homespun clothes, feeling that it was more appropriate in a republic.^[24]: 37

The Washingtons left the capital immediately after the inauguration of John Adams, making the return journey to Mount Vernon, which by then had begun to decay.^[10]: 12 Again they went into retirement, and they saw to several renovations for their home.^[3]: 9 In the years after the presidency, the Washingtons received more visitors than ever, from friends and strangers alike. They eventually took in one of the former president's nephews, Lawrence Lewis, to serve as secretary, and he would eventually marry Washington's granddaughter Nelly.^[10]: 13

Washington feared that her husband would again be called away to lead a provisional army against France, but no such conflict took place. Her husband died of a severe throat infection on December 14, 1799, at the age of 67.^[28] As a widow, Washington spent her final years living in a garret where she knitted, sewed, and responded to letters. Though she was the legal owner of her husband's property, she gave control of its business affairs to her relatives.^[3]: 9 She also inherited her husband's slaves on the condition that they be freed upon her death. Fearing that these slaves might hurt her, she freed them. She did not have the authority to free her dower slaves, and she chose not to free the one slave, Elish, whom she personally owned.^[11]

Washington retained an interest in the presidency after her tenure as first lady, beginning the tradition of advising her successors.^[24]: 124 The Washington family long disliked Thomas Jefferson and Jeffersonian politics, in part because of the central role he played in criticizing the Washington administration.^[10]: 11 Washington took offense when Jefferson became president, as she felt that he did not give adequate respect to the office.^[9]: 8

Washington's health, always somewhat precarious, declined after her husband's death.^[29] She had anticipated her death since that of her husband. When she developed a fever in 1802, she burned all of her husband's letters to her, summoned a clergyman to administer last communion, and chose her funeral dress.^[9]: 8 Two and a half years after the death of her husband, Washington died on May 22, 1802, at the age of 70.^[29] Following her death, Washington's body was interred in the original Washington family tomb vault at Mount Vernon.^[30] In 1831, the surviving executors of George's estate removed the bodies of the Washingtons from the old vault to a similar structure within the present enclosure at Mount Vernon.^[30]

Just as her husband had set the precedent for the presidency, Washington established what would eventually become the role of first lady. She was prominent in the ceremonial aspects of the presidency, assisting her husband in his role as head of state, but she had very little public involvement in his administrative role as head of government. This would be the standard of presidential wives for the next century.^{[23]: 7–8} Washington was recognized for her humility and her mild-mannered nature, to the point that her contemporaries were often taken by surprise when meeting her.^[9]: 3 No personal records of Washington exist from before the death of her first husband, and she destroyed many letters that she had written since then. Many recipients of her letters kept them, however, and those letters have been preserved in archives such as at Mount Vernon and the Virginia Historical Society. Several collections of these letters have been published.^[10]: 14

During the Revolutionary War, one of the regiments at Valley Forge named themselves "Lady Washington's Dragoon" in her honor.^[2]: 14The Martha Washington College for Women was founded in Abingdon, Virginia in 1860.^[31] It was merged with Emory & Henry College in 1918,^[32] and the main original building of Martha Washington College was converted to the Martha Washington Inn.^[33] Martha Washington Seminary, a finishing school for young women in Washington, DC, was opened in 1905,^[34] and it ceased operations in 1949.^[35]

A postage stamp featuring Martha Washington, the first stamp to honor an American woman, was issued as part of the 1902 stamp series. An 8-cent stamp, it was printed in violet-black ink.^[36] The second stamp issued in her honor,^[37] a 4-cent definitive stamp printed in yellow-brown ink, was released in 1923.^[38] A 1+1⁄2-cent stamp was issued in 1938 to honor Washington as part of the Presidential Issue series.^[39] Washington's image was featured on the one dollar silver certificate banknote beginning in 1886, making her the second woman to appear on an American banknote after Pocahontas.^[40] To prevent confusion with existing coinage, pattern coins testing new metals have been produced by the U.S. mint, or a company contracted to it, with Martha Washington on the obverse.^[41]

Since 1982 Siena College Research Institute has periodically conducted surveys asking historians to assess American first ladies according to a cumulative score on the independent criteria of their background, value to the country, intelligence, courage, accomplishments, integrity, leadership, being their own women, public image, and value to the president.^[42] Consistently, Washington has been ranked in the upper-half of first ladies by historians in these surveys. In terms of cumulative assessment, Washington has been ranked:

• 9th-best of 42 in 1982^[43]
• 12th-best of 37 in 1993^[43]
• 13th-best of 38 in 2003^[43]
• 9th-best of 38 in 2008^[43]
• 9th-best of 39 in 2014^[44]

In the 2008 Siena Research Institute survey, Washington was ranked 3rd-highest in the criteria of public image.^[43] In the 2014 survey, Washington and her husband were ranked the 2nd-highest out of 39 first couples in terms of being a "power couple".^[45]

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