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Be Without You

"Be Without You"
Single by Mary J. Blige
from the album The Breakthrough
ReleasedNovember 14, 2005 (2005-11-14)
GenreHip hop soul
Length4:09
Label
Songwriter(s)
Producer(s)Cox (Music), Young Smoke (Music), Blige (Vocals), Ron Fair (Vocals)
Mary J. Blige singles chronology
"MJB da MVP"
(2005)
"Be Without You"
(2005)
"One"
(2006)
Music video
"Be Without You" on YouTube

"Be Without You" is a song by American recording artist Mary J. Blige. It was written by Johntá Austin, Bryan Michael Cox, Jason Perry, and Blige for her seventh studio album, The Breakthrough (2005). Production was helmed by Cox, with additional production from Young Smoke and vocal production from Ron Fair and Blige. A piano-tinkling downtempo R&B song, the song examines a relationship where the couple is trying to decide if they want to stay together, with Blige urging them to appreciate their blessings. "Be Without You" was released as the album's first official single on November 14, 2005.

Ranking among the most played songs on US radio in the year 2006, it was certified double-platinum by the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) in 2007. In March 2017, Billboard ranked "Be Without You" as the most successful R&B/Hip-Hop Song of all time. "Be Without You" is also one of Mary J. Blige's most successful singles to date, peaking at number three on the Billboard Hot 100. It was nominated for Record of the Year and Song of the Year and won the Best R&B Song and Best Female R&B Vocal Performance categories at the 2007 Grammy Awards.

Background

"Be Without You" is a contemporary R&B and hip hop soul song written in the key of D minor with a tempo of 73 beats per minute. The song follows a chord progression of Dm – Bmaj7 – C – Dm – Gm7 – C – A7, and Blige's vocals span from F3 to D5.[1] It was co-written by Blige along with Bryan-Michael Cox, Jason Perry and Johnta Austin, and co-produced by Cox and Young Smoke.[2] Cox, along with Young Smoke and Ron Fair, played multiple instruments. Fair also did the vocal arrangements and string arrangements. Additionally, the song features three engineers and was mixed by David Pensado.[2] Cox commented on the production of "Be Without You": "I did the whole track and Jason co-composed the bridge with me, and Johnta wrote the lyrics and the melody. Mary came in and she and I tweaked some of the lines and tightened the record up lyrically to fit her. We threw ideas around, we talked about the track and we came up with concepts."[2]

Critical reception

"Be Without You" was released to universal acclaim. Pitchfork's Clover Hope found that on "Be Without You," Blige "is practically levitating. It’s a stunning vocal showcase amid a litany of lyrical vows that capture the ecstasy of the honeymoon phase,"[3] while Alexis Petridis from The Guardian called it a "wonderful song: luscious, dramatic, with Blige bringing her patent edge."[4] Billboard described the song a "tale of real love" and called it "signature Blige,"[5] with Thomas Inskeep, writing for Stylus Magazine, calling the song a "slammer of a single, a midtempo love song that gets all the hands in the air (lighters-cum-cell phones, too)."[6] The Sun Sentinel wrote: On "Be Without You, "Blige pours out all her emotion as she talks about the feeling of being with that person you cannot live without.[7]

Antwane Folk from Rated R&B noted that "this power ballad hears Blige inarguably in love, proving her commitment to her man in an arresting singing style that made you believe every word."[8] Da'Shan Smith from uDiscoverMusic found that the song "remains one her most powerful performances, with vocal runs for days before she brings it home towards the end."[9] Tareck Ghoneim from Contactmusic.com found that "Be Without You" continues "to show Blige's unique, soulful and powerful singing style with the all the pain of a sensitive diva that we've become used to with her [...] Blige at this point in her career could easily turn cheesy and cater to a pop market. However even though this track doesn't quite have the youthful exuberance of What's the 411?, it still has the angst and quality of a lady who is still striving and most definitely has her name carved in the music hall of fame."[10] BET.com wrote of the song: "With a beautiful piano melody and Mary in top-notch, gut-wrenching form, it's easy to see why this is one of the biggest songs of Mary's legendary career."[11]

Accolades

Awards and nominations for "Be Without You"
Organization Year Category Result Ref.
ASCAP Pop Awards 2007 Pop Music Award Won [12]
Song of the Year Won
BET Awards 2006 Video of the Year Won [13]
Billboard Awards 2006 Hot 100 Airplay of the Year Won [14]
Hot 100 Airplay of the Year Won
R&B/Hip-Hop Song Airplay of the Year Won
R&B/Hip-Hop Song of the Year Won
Grammy Awards 2007 Best R&B Song Won [15]
Best Female R&B Vocal Performance Won
Song of the Year Nominated
Record of the Year Nominated
International Dance Music Awards 2007 Best R&B/Urban Dance Track Won [16]
MOBO Awards 2006 Best Song Nominated [17]
MTV Video Music Awards 2006 Best R&B Video Nominated [18]
NAACP Image Awards 2007 Outstanding Music Video Won [19]

Chart performance

The single debuted at number 93 on the Billboard Hot 100 and peaked at number three in February 2006, Blige's third highest peak of her career after 2001's "Family Affair" and 1996's "Not Gon' Cry." Moreover, the song became the most successful release in the history of the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart (until 2013) when it spent a record 15 consecutive weeks at number one. "Be Without You" topped the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 Airplay chart for nine weeks, and the dance remix has also topped the U.S. Hot Dance Club Play chart. The song broke the record for the longest-running single in the existence of the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs, where it spent a grand total of 75 weeks on that chart. After its run on the main R&B chart, it moved to the Recurrent R&B Airplay chart.

In the UK, the single only peaked at number 32 on the UK singles chart; however, with the Moto Blanco remix of the song becoming a large club hit in the UK, the song actually managed to hold (to that time) the record for the most weeks on the UK top 75 for a Mary J. Blige single (18 in total). Having proved very popular, the Moto Blanco remix was featured as a B-side in the UK on subsequent singles "MJB Da MVP" and "Enough Cryin'."

Music video

Actor Terrence Howard co-stars as Blige's boyfriend in the video.[20]

Blige reteamed with Matthew Rolston, director of the visuals for her 1995 single "I'm Going Down," to film a music video for "Be Without You."[20] Though set in New York City, it was largely filmed in Los Angeles on November 8, 2005,[20] with much of the scenes shot in a home originally owned by entertainer Frank Sinatra.[21] Actor Terrence Howard, fresh from the success of the drama film Hustle & Flow (2005), was consulted to portray Blige's love interest in the video.[21]

"Be Without You" first aired on November 28, 2005. It peaked on AOL Videos Top 11 on the tenth spot on the January 21, 2006, entering the chart the first time and also the LAUNCH Music Videos Top 100 at the sixth position the same week. There's also a "Live At Launch Exclusive Performance" available for download from January 2006, which peaked seventieth on the same chart. The music video won in the Video of the Year category at the 2006 BET Awards as well as the award for Outstanding Music Video at the 38th NAACP Image Awards.[13][19] In addition, "Be Without You" was nominated for Best R&B Video at the 2006 MTV Video Music Awards.[18]

Synopsis

The video begins with a black and white cityscape with Blige standing on top of a building as the song starts playing. Then, the video shifts into a bathroom scene with Blige cleaning out her medicine cabinet. In the first scene, Blige is typing the lyrics on her laptop. The next scene shown in color appears with Blige falling in love with her boyfriend and sleeping with him. Then, the next scene takes place in a kitchen where Blige and her love interest are celebrating dinner with her family. Meanwhile, she is seen in a color scene standing next to a group of candles with the next scene showing her at a red carpet premiere walking out of a limo. Then, Blige and her boyfriend break up after having a fight (as seen in the events at the beginning of the video). After 2 candles begin to melt, the final scene in black and white changes to color with a knock on Blige's door. She opens the door to find her boyfriend on the other side. They embrace at the close of the song.

Remixes

The official remix was also produced by Bryan-Michael Cox and features former Shady Records rapper Stat Quo.

Track listings

UK CD single[22]
No.TitleWriter(s)Producer(s)Length
1."Be Without You" (Kendu Mix)
4:10
2."Be Without You" (Moto Blanco Vocal Mix)
  • Blige
  • Austin
  • Cox
  • Perry
4:31
US CD single[23]
No.TitleWriter(s)Producer(s)Length
1."Be Without You" (Kendu Mix)
  • Blige
  • Austin
  • Cox
  • Perry
4:10
2."Show Love"Thompson3:42
3."Be Without You" (Moto Blanco Vocal Mix)
  • Blige
  • Austin
  • Cox
  • Perry
4:31

Notes

  • ^[a] denotes a co-producer
  • ^[b] denotes a vocal producer
  • ^[c] denotes a remix producer

Credits and personnel

Credits adapted from the liner notes of The Breakthrough.[24]

  • Mary J. Blige – all vocals, vocal producer, songwriter
  • Johntá Austin – songwriter
  • Bryan-Michael Cox – additional instruments, music producer, songwriter
  • Pat Dillet – recording engineer
  • Mike Eleopolous – additional recording engineer
  • Ron Fair – additional instruments, Pro Tools, vocal producer, vocal arrangements, string arrangements, strings conducted by
  • Dave Pensado – mixing engineer
  • Jason Perry – songwriter
  • Young Smoke – keyboards, additional music producer
  • Allen Sides – strings recording engineer

Charts

Certifications

Certifications for "Be Without You"
Region Certification Certified units/sales
United Kingdom (BPI)[65] Gold 400,000
United States (RIAA)[66] 2× Platinum 2,000,000^

^ Shipments figures based on certification alone.
Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.

Release history

Release history and formats for "Be Without You"
Region Date Format(s) Label(s) Ref(s).
United States November 14, 2005 [67]
United Kingdom December 19, 2005
  • 12-inch vinyl
  • CD
[68]
Various January 20, 2006 Digital download [69][70][71]
United States January 30, 2006 Contemporary hit radio [72]

Cover versions

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